Approaching

For shy men, approaching women can be most difficult. If you do not have confidence when you approach a woman that you want to know better, the chances are, you will say or do things that will embarrass you so much that you will have even more difficulty the next time you try to approach a woman.

In order to break this cycle of defeat, you will need to learn how to approach a woman without the embarrassing line or action. First, you should know that there is no "right" way to approach a woman. There is no one line that will make any woman fall in love with you. Each woman and each situation is unique and calls for a unique approach.

However you choose to approach a woman, it needs to be in a natural manner appropriate to your location. If you are in a crowded and loud place, it will probably be best to keep your encounter short so that she does not have to strain to try to hear you speaking for a long time.

You could make the encounter just long enough to exchange contact information so that you might speak again with her later. You could even let her know the reason that you are not speaking with her longer in the loud environment.

If you are approaching a woman in a quieter atmosphere such as an art museum, you will have more opportunity to speak to her when you meet her. An art museum is a great place to approach a woman because you have ready-made objects of conversation so you do not have to try to think of the right thing to say. In an art museum, you could simply wait for the woman to look at a piece of art that you are viewing and then ask her what she thinks of it.

In any situation, asking a woman what she thinks about something is a good idea. If you observe your surroundings, it should not be too difficult to find something about which you think she might have some thoughts.